Before the website, before the advocacy, before learning words like policy and reform, there was simply my baby brother and me. There was our family, our ordinary days, and the quiet rhythm of growing up side by side. There was Shane. Not a cause or a case or a statistic. Just my brother. When he was born, my mom used to say that was the day he got two mommies, because all I wanted to do was hold him and take care of him. I hovered close, always wanting to help, always wantin